​Moving abroad is exciting - new cultures, new opportunities, and the chance to reinvent your life a little. But even experienced expats will tell you there are things they wish they had known earlier.

To help future expats make the transition smoother, we spoke with our recruiter Amadine Riechers, who has been living abroad for almost six years.

Here are the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how they can help you feel more at home from the very start.

1. Paperwork Takes Longer Than Expected (And That’s Completely Normal)

After six years abroad, one of the things Amadine still remembers is how confusing the paperwork felt. Residence registration, health insurance, banking, it’s a lot to navigate when everything is new.

She advices to start early and keep all documents organized in one place. Most importantly, be patient with the process; every country has its own rhythm. Paperwork may not be glamorous, but once it’s out of the way, your new life can truly begin.

2. Go Beyond the Tourist Spots to Discover the Real Country

In her early years abroad, Amadine found herself visiting the well-known attractions first, which is perfectly natural. But she later realized that the most meaningful experiences came from exploring neighbourhoods, small cafés, markets, and places where locals spend their free time. She finds that you connect much more deeply with the culture when you step off the tourist path.

3. Learn the Language Sooner Rather Than Later

One of Amadine’s biggest reflections is that she started learning the local language later than she wished. Once she did, everything became easier, friendships, daily tasks, and especially work connections. And don’t worry about making mistakes, locals appreciate the effort.

4. Avoid Working Remotely too Much at the Start

Remote work is an amazing privilege, but in her first months abroad, Amadine found herself staying home more than she planned. As a result, she wasn’t fully absorbing the culture or forming connections early on. She advices to spend your early weeks working in cafés, coworking spaces, or the office when possible. Once you’re settled and connected, enjoy the freedom to work from anywhere.

A little in-person presence at the beginning helps you feel part of the country much sooner.

Final Thoughts From 6 Years Abroad

Amadine’s insights aren’t warnings, they’re gentle reminders from someone who’s lived the expat journey for years. Every experience is unique, and there’s no “right” way to settle into a new country. But being aware of these common patterns can make the transition smoother, more enjoyable, and more meaningful.